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    May 13

    淡定·自信

    一直都挺欣赏鲁豫,觉得女人到了30,应该有那样的淡定和自信。今天在BQ《北京青年》看到一篇采访鲁豫的文章。2008年4月14日,《鲁豫有约》正式登陆湖南卫视,更名为《快乐心灵·鲁豫有约》。
     
    虽然之前也听到在电视台做的朋友说她在生活中有些明星腔,耍大牌,每次做节目都要求单独的化妆间。但是还是很喜欢她,尤其喜欢看《鲁豫有约》,因为它不像朱军的《艺术人生》,每次都要以把嘉宾弄哭为最高目标,《鲁》却是在一个很轻松的环境中,让嘉宾慢慢的回顾人生走过来的历程,看到的更多的是喜悦,偶尔带一份淡淡的感伤。
     
    鲁豫说如果让她十年前刚毕业的时候做这个节目,可能她根本做不了,因为没有丰富的生活经历和人生阅历,大家为什么会相信你?认同你?把自己的故事说出来给你听?不会,所有这些都需要积累。显然现在的她,是个有故事的女人,也正是这份沉淀,给了她坚实的自信,这份自信才会看上去如此从容,如此淡定。我深信三十岁的女人是最美的,身边也不乏美丽的奔四女人,会打扮,有品味,懂得经营自己的生活。二十多岁的时候,我们真的不必畏惧任何事情,年轻就是我们的资本,而我们需要做的就是去经历更多,体验不同的生活,不论是甜的还是苦的。“没什么大不了”是鲁豫的口头禅,30的女人都有如此的洒脱,我们还有什么理由去计较得失呢?
     
    最喜欢她的一句话就是“成为一个坐标,就好”。有的人希望成为别人的目标,所以这是他不断努力的东西。但“坐标”只是一个标记,一个刻度,抱着这份不怕别人超越的心态,自己会活得坦然得多。没有人是不能被超越的,如果你希望自己永远成为别人的目标,那活得最累的永远是自己。我们只需要做一个完美的“坐标”,那就永远都是自己。

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    Kelly MX LUwrote:
    To Fred,
    我同事说她像蝌蚪,满形象的比喻。
    May 13
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    Fred Zhou wrote:
    如果整容里面有缩头的话, 强烈建议她整一下.
    不然老是感觉她是火星来的...
    May 13

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